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Marriage Is Not 50-50, It’s 100-100 – A Tribute to the Wholeness I Chose to Be

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The stage was quiet. The spotlight warmed my skin as I stepped forward, my heartbeat louder than the applause that had faded moments ago. I looked out at the sea of faces—some curious, some kind, some simply waiting—and I smiled. Not because everything was perfect, but because I had finally found my voice. This is not just a story about marriage. It’s a story about choosing to be whole. A story about what happens when a woman stops waiting to be completed—and starts living fully, unapologetically, and completely herself. 🌹 “They told me marriage is 50-50... but they were wrong.” I was 24 when I got married. Wide-eyed, full of dreams, unsure of what “forever” really meant. People said, “It’s about balance. You give 50, he gives 50—that’s how love works.” And so, I tried. I tried giving 50%. I kept half my dreams on hold. I measured my efforts. I waited for him to meet me halfway. And when he didn’t, I felt defeated. But one day—quietly, without drama—I stopped expecting balance. I...

Before Loving Someone Else, Love Yourself: A Journey to Self-Love

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Love is one of the most profound emotions we experience as humans. It binds us together, gives life meaning, and fills our hearts with joy. But before we can truly love someone else in a healthy and fulfilling way, we must first learn to love ourselves. Self-love is not about arrogance or selfishness; it is about recognizing our worth, setting boundaries, and treating ourselves with the same compassion and kindness that we offer to others. In this blog, we will explore the journey to self-love—why it is essential, how to cultivate it, and how it positively impacts our relationships. If you’re struggling with self-acceptance or looking for ways to strengthen your inner relationship, this guide is for you. Understanding Self-Love: What Does It Really Mean? Self-love is the foundation of a healthy and fulfilling life. It is the practice of accepting yourself unconditionally, appreciating your strengths, and embracing your flaws. When you love yourself, you don’t rely on external valid...