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Marriage Is Not 50-50, It’s 100-100 – A Tribute to the Wholeness I Chose to Be

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The stage was quiet. The spotlight warmed my skin as I stepped forward, my heartbeat louder than the applause that had faded moments ago. I looked out at the sea of faces—some curious, some kind, some simply waiting—and I smiled. Not because everything was perfect, but because I had finally found my voice. This is not just a story about marriage. It’s a story about choosing to be whole. A story about what happens when a woman stops waiting to be completed—and starts living fully, unapologetically, and completely herself. 🌹 “They told me marriage is 50-50... but they were wrong.” I was 24 when I got married. Wide-eyed, full of dreams, unsure of what “forever” really meant. People said, “It’s about balance. You give 50, he gives 50—that’s how love works.” And so, I tried. I tried giving 50%. I kept half my dreams on hold. I measured my efforts. I waited for him to meet me halfway. And when he didn’t, I felt defeated. But one day—quietly, without drama—I stopped expecting balance. I...

Mastering Effective Workplace Communication

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Communication is the heart of every relationship. Whether it’s with a partner, friend, family member, or colleague, the way we communicate can either strengthen our bonds or create distance. Yet, despite its importance, effective communication is often one of the most challenging skills to master. Have you ever felt unheard in a conversation? Or struggled to express your emotions without conflict? You’re not alone. Miscommunication is one of the leading causes of misunderstandings, arguments, and emotional distance. The good news? Communication is a skill that can be learned and improved. In this blog, we’ll explore the key elements of effective communication in relationships and how you can use them to build stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling connections. 1. Active Listening: The Foundation of Connection Listening is more than just hearing words. It’s about understanding, processing, and responding in a meaningful way . Too often, we listen with the intent to reply rather t...